What I'm about to say may seem harsh, but being someone who has been following this developing story, something just doesn't seem right and I have a few opinions I'd like to voice.

Regarding the engagement video, was it just me, or did Tila seem more enthused by the 17 carat diamond on her finger and her "rich" fiance than the fact that she was engaged to be married? I was pretty much appaled by the way she was acting saying things about Casey such as "she is balling," "heir to the Johnson & Johnson empire," "gazillionaire."

Even in the picture above, Tila seems to have that "ha - look what I got!" attitude, while Casey seems to be really excited and in love.

After Casey was pronounced dead, TMZ spoke with Tila. She said they were fighting last week and that Casey stayed at Tila's house on the 28th. Tila tried contacting Casey on the 29th because Casey had left her dogs behind. Tila says Casey's phone has been shut off since the 29th and she was not able to make contact.

So Tila hadn't seen or spoken to the supposed 'love of her life' in an entire week. A week that included New Years Eve - a holiday which reminds us of new beginings and kisses at midnight. How could someone who was newly engaged even consider spending New Years Eve without their fiance? And if she couldn't get through on the phone why wouldn't she stop by her house to make sure she was ok?

Casey is diabetic and has been hospitalized twice after going into a diabetic coma. I'm sure the people that care about her such as family and friends would be well aware of that and pay extra close attention to something such as her not being able to be reached. Doesn't that have 'red flag' written all over it?

I think we can all agree that if a loved one is missing you do everything you can to find them or get a hold of them to make sure they are alright. And if you can't, you call authorities. Would you not? Not if you are Tila Tequila. She must have too busy.

My point is, this could have and should have been prevented. Tila should have done more. But she didn't. She called her fiance and when she didn't answer, Tila just went on with life. Who would ignore the fact that someone prone to comas cannot be reached? Someone who truly doesn't care, someone who just wants to be famous at any cost, someone who would take advantage of a possibly naive girl who just wanted someone to love...

Instead of drawing attention to yourself and trying to make everyone feel sorry for you via Twitter, you should be grieving in private. Have some respect for the family and for Casey. And maybe try to look less like a gold-digging media whore.

UPDATE: Here is a picture of Tila just 2 days after her fiance was found dead. Gossip Girl reports that the reality star called due to a dispute over the late Casey Johnson’s dogs. Apparently, Nicky Hilton and Bijou Philips came to the house to retrieve the pooches.

She apparently was expecting paparazzi (she had her make-up and hair done) and she flashed her smile as they snapped pictures. Wow, Tila, at least pretend to be grieving.

Oh wait, you do pretend to be grieving in the video below, but not over Casey, over her dogs. And even my 5 year old can fake-cry better than that!

Sadly, we won't be seeing our girl Lauren Conrad on The Hills anymore--but she's hardly disappeared. As the face of Mark cosmetics, Conrad has been busy teaming up with her makeup artist, Amy Nadine, to create two lip gloss shades for the company. We talked with her about the glosses...and squeezed in a few other beauty questions too.